~WeLcoMe To My LIfE~

My parents are safely back at home, after performing Haj, alhamdulillah. Although Mak is not feeling very well. She was coughing a lot when I called, and Ayah also starting to feel a bit unwell, prolly because of the jet lag and tiredness. Hope they both will be fine soon.. aminn.

We had some kind of raya celebration yesterday, and we invited Dato Seri Nazri Aziz, and also MSD and JPA representative. It was really embarassing though, sbb our guests have to wait for the rest of the people to turn up, before we can start the event. Adoilah!! I mean, I understand that mmg lah event ni bukan wajib pun, and mmg ada orang yang tak boleh datang for one reason or another. Tapinya, from my point of view lah kan, bila kita joint satu-satu community or persatuan tu, we have the responsibilities untuk berinteraksi dan menjayakan apa-apa jua program yang dianjurkan. Ini dah kira macam fardu kifayah, tak ke?

Macam kes ni, bila kata persatuan kita buat sesuatu program, dan jemput someone other than our own members to come, kiranya invitation tu datang dari kita semualah kan? Jadinya, sebagai tuan rumah, tak ke sepatutnya, kita buatkan tetamu kita tu rasa dialu-alukan dgn menunggu tetamu kita tu? Bukannya suruh tetamu tu yang tunggu kita. Sama lah konsep macam kalau kita jemput kawan-kawan kita datang rumah, kita kenalah ada kat rumah kan? Takkan nak biar kawan kita tunggu kat depan pagar sampai satu jam, baru nak bagi kawan kita tu masuk, kan?

Ok, maybe some of us will kata, yang bukan kita yang nak jemput, tapi committee members kita yang nak jemput, so its none of our business. But then again, masa kita appointed committee kita tu, tak ke kita dah bersedia nak menerima keputusan dan membantu committee kita tu. Sama lah macam bila parents kita buat kenduri kat rumah jemput orang kampung, bukan kita yang nak jemput orang kampung kan? Tapi sbb ayah kita dah jemput, kita kena lah get along dan tolong melayan tetamu serta apa-apa lah yang patut. Tak ke?

It’s weird though, sbb bila time makan aje tiba-tiba ada ramai orang muncul..hmmm

Ok, maybe ini tak relevan pun dgn sesetengah orang yang terbaca bebelan aku nih. Tapi nak mengingatkan diri sendiri dan orang lain jugak. Kadang-kadang kita tend to tgk social activities and get together tu sbg perkara remeh, without realising yang sebenarnya kita ada tanggungjawab untuk bersosial. No man is an Island, and dalam Islam pun kata kita mesti berhubungan baik sesama manusia.

I rest my case…

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